We didn’t skip planning. We just skipped one key question.
And it cost us, over and over again.
“What matters most to you in the wedding?” the planner asked gently.
It caught her off guard.
She had been neck-deep in spreadsheets, budget ranges, venue options, and food tastings. No one had asked that question before.
She paused. “Honestly… the photos. I want it to feel like a dream in every frame. That’s what I’ll remember.”
The planner leaned in. “Why that in particular?”
She paused, seeing it in her head. “I want soft lights, warm colors. nothing too flashy. I don’t want stiff poses. I want candids, my dad tying my necklace, my friends fixing my hair, my grandparents laughing at the sangeet. When I look back, I should feel like I’m there again. Like I can hear the music, smell the flowers, remember the exact moment.”
That one answer changed everything.
The planner didn’t push for a live band or oversized centerpieces. Instead, she poured the budget into mood lighting and floral backdrops. Golden hour became sacred in the day’s timeline. And the photographer? Someone whose editing style looked like her Pinterest board had come alive.
Golden hour became sacred in the day’s timeline. The ceremony was timed perfectly for that soft, diffused light she had dreamed of. The floral arrangements framed each shot like stills from a movie.
Even the photographer knew to capture the quiet moments, her adjusting her veil, her parents tearing up, just like she had imagined.
It felt personal. Thoughtful. Like every choice had been made for her, not just for the crowd.
And when she finally flipped through the album weeks later, every frame brought her right back to that feeling, exactly the dream she’d described when she first shared her why.
Every detail, the timing, the lighting, the candid shots was there because she’d been clear about why it mattered.
It wasn’t just a wedding that looked good, it felt right because every decision was rooted in what was important to her.
No chaos. No mismatched expectations. Just a smooth, memorable event, because someone had taken the time to understand the why behind every decision.
And that stuck with her.
Months later, back at work, she found herself on the other end of the planning table.
The customer milestone was critical, a rollout for a complex Industry 4.0 solution. The release plan was falling apart before it began. Functional, non-functional, and non-product requirements were poorly captured. The customer team wanted predictability. The supplier team needed clarity.
Everyone was busy making lists, assigning timelines, and arguing about priorities, but no one had paused to ask: Why does each item matter?
It felt like planning a wedding without knowing what the bride cared about.
So she flipped the script.
She arranged a real project kickoff, not a passive one with three slides and generic updates. This time, every contributor from the customer team and supplier team was in the room.
And she asked the same question the planner once asked her:
“Why is this important to you?”
We clarified epics, calculated ROIs, aligned on priority, identified dependencies and resource allocation, all tied back to the purpose behind each item.
The answers brought the fog into focus.
This time, the supplier team didn’t just get tasks, they got context.
She followed it up with a dedicated planning workshop. They co-created a checklist: epics, dependencies, edge cases, third-party libraries, hardware constraints, and legacy system handoffs. Risks were flagged early. Change communication protocols were agreed upon. Everyone knew the why, and that made room for better hows.
Three weeks later, the client noticed.
“We can finally rely on your delivery timelines,” they said. “The updates are clearer, and it’s easier to course-correct. We’re moving faster.”
They didn’t know the exact change, but she did.
It all traced back to one question she was once asked as a bride:
“Why is this important to you?” That simple shift from what and how to why had made them 10% faster and significantly more predictable.
The result?
– A more reliable release plan
– Fewer last-minute escalations
– Teams that felt ownership not confusion
– And a 10% faster path to milestone delivery
10%
All because she didn’t just align tasks. She aligned priorities.
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Key Takeaway
Plans became more predictable because we stopped just listing tasks and started understanding why each one mattered. That clarity on the “why” shaped a better “how”, leading to smoother, faster milestones.
